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Why do we get nervous?
Most teenagers face one perticular problem in high school. Being nervous about who to ask to a dance and how. Why is it on the arrival of this question we find our slefs drenched with fear? Teenagers have a tendancy to: fear the unknown, worry about rejection from peers, and cause social drama.
Life is full of the unknown. This does not need to be followed by fear. We have the tendancy to wonder and think of every negitive thing that may follow either contimplating or after making a choice.This can make us fear the possibilities and our out-comes of our choice. We often get self doubt and we ask questions such as: "what if"? If we begin to have more confidance in our self and our decisions we have no reason to fear for asking someone to a dance.
One reason we might worry about our decision about who to ask is we are afraid of rejection. In society we are constantly looking over our shoulder wondering what others are thinking, and if they aprove.We automatically assume it is negitive.All of us need to feel accepted. It is curcial to our survial.If we dont we may question our importance in this world. Rejection might ripple to our furture relationships also. Teenagers have a good reason to worry about rejection because we have many oppertunities that might result in it.
In High School, the term " High school drama" is easily understood and common.We seem to exagerate in intence social cituations. We act childish and imature.If we are rejected from an activity such as a dance we assume things that are not necessary which, causes. If we take such such experiances in our life and usetem as learning tools, there is no use for drama.
Teenage life is full of intence social cituations we must learn how to handle such cituations like asking some one to a dance as oppertunities, not tasks. If we dont we may miss out on extrodinary.