How can we do about weaknesses?
In life there are many bumps in the road, many obsticals to overcome, and many trials to go through. Through this we discover many things we are not good at.Things we have to learn how to fix about our selfs. Weaknesses are somthing we all face , and all learn to overcome. They are not meant to be easy.They are there to help us grow and devlelop. Often times these are trials, or they may cause trials. This does not mean we have to seclude our selfs from the world. We do not need to fear our weaknesses!
Our weaknesses are not there for us to run from. In fact they are almost there to tackle. This is difficult but, if we do this we are more likly to grow. We also may feel some sort of guilt because of our weaknesses. Somtimes they might even cause us to do do things we regret. This does not mean we cannot change them. Weaknesses may just be a blessing in desguise if we learn how to handle them in the right way. Weaknesses are meant to help us not tear us down.(as much as we might want to believe other wise.) If we can learn from them and learn how to make them our strengths we will lessen our trials each time we come across one. Life is about learning, and if we can learn from our mistakes and weaknesses we can increase our wisdome for future generations, so we can prevent them and better learn how to overcome them.
Others are also very capable of seeing our weaknesses. Somtimes even better than our selves. We often can take that in the wrong way. If we can accept these weaknesses it can actually help us rather then tear us down, but we must also cast caution to the wind for those of us that help others with their weaknesses that we do it with special care, and not make it a character assination. When we get help with our weaknesses we must try to make the best of every thing. We might be tempted to just think that the other person is just trying to tear us down. In reality it might just be that they are trying to help us because they truly care about our well-being.
All though weaknesses are very emotionally draining and very tough, it is there to help us learn from our past mistakes . If we can learn to do this we might look at things in a new perspective, see many different perspectives which inable us to relate with others , and to look at things differently then we may have originally. These traits help us to become more humble and selfless. Put together these help us grow and develope which allows us to become better people. If we do these things we make is easier on our selves.( not to mention the poeple we share our lives with. ;) )
Sunday, December 25, 2005
Posted by Aubrey Koehler at 6:14 PM
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