Is pain skin deep or does that just mean love is?

“Wisdom is nothing more than healed pain.”

Pain is a fickle thing because right when you believe your self rid of it you find your self stricken all over again. Somtimes pain never fully heals. Because somtimes wounds are to deep and memories are to well remembered. Most pain people feel often comes from having to deal in some way or another with someone they really care about and love. Whether it be betrayal, disloyality, mistrust ect...it hurts. We all feel this sometime in our life young or old.

I have had many times in my life where I have been hurt by someone I care a great deal about, which makes it hurt all the more. Whether it be by a friend, a crush, a boyfriend/girlfriend or a family member the pain hits us right at home. When we are first hit with this type of pain it hurts often more than we can bare or we think we can bare. If we think about what caused us this pain we might think it is our fault but sometimes hurt can not be avoided. There are some things in life we must learn to deal with. Pain is real, and the more times we have to deal with it the more it is alive inside of us. Part of hurt is learning how to heal.

Healing is more often times then not a long process. It is somthing that can not be rushed or even planed. It is time. Time they say heals all wounds. Somtimes however we need help.In
fact most times we do; sometimes we are stuburn or even in denyal so it puts a hold on our healing process, but if we look past this and realize we have to heal if we are to ever truly
be happy again. Healing can also cause pain too because it reminds us of the past we are most times trying to forget. Healing can hurt even more then the pain its self did. The healing we have to do when it is caused by someone we love is probably the hardest kind to over come. We lose trust in the person we held somuch trust in. Trust is easly lost but even more hard to gain. That is possibly why it is hardest to heal from.

Pain is somthing we all go through and all must learn to deal with. It is part of what we call life. It is delicate and fragile. Trust is often lost after certain pains are caused by those we love. Trust
like glass it can be broken but also replaced. We all must be carefull of all we say and do. We all go through pain and maybe in time are healed. We must give it are all to try to heal what ever it takes because then....we know what it is to be happy.If we have felt bad for so long we forget it what it is like to feel happy which makes it even more enjoyable.








Quotes:
*“I understand with love comes pain, but why did I have to love so much?”
*“There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It is caused by the absence of you.”
* “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
*“Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.”
*“Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.”