Can we handle the truth?

I have been thinking lately about how we can often get or self in a trap with our past. When we like someone and somthing happens between the two of you , you move on. somtimes however, we do not let go. If we are hurt by the other person sometimes it hurts so bad at that moment we want to totally forget about that person. How often does this actually happen? Not that often. We make an excuse for that person in our mind and we start to run back to them. The truth is, how often do people that hurt you , change from being like that? Not hardly at all. So the truth is DONT RUN BACK! They arent going to change over night, and neither is the hurt. By all means you can forgive them but this doesnt mean you have to go looking for another reason to like them all over again. Most of the time we just have to learn to move on . It can be soo frustrating when they keep hurting us so why put up with it? Just learn to walk away! It is hard and most times painful, but it will be best for you in the long run. We cannot let ourselfs be run over by people. It is hard to face the truth that people are going to be the way they are and there is nothing we can do to change them!!!! WE MUST LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT!

I have found my self quite often in the middle of things and it can be so fustrateing when you see a friend or yourself go through this situation. There are more then just one person we can be with. ESPECIALLY in high school we are to young to be caught up in this type of drama! All i can say is learn to accept the truth for what it is!