TORN IN TWO!!

There are people in our life that have a special role or place in your hearts. Some of these people however may not see eye to eye at some point in your life. Which can cause some serious problems because you are friends with them. This might even be the case with family too. Whether it friends or parents there might be a time where youmight have to make a choice, or you just feel really torn between the two choices.

It becomes really strenuous on you because you are constintally feeling like you have to make a choice and they cant be satisfied with what ever you chose. It is completely, emotionally, draining. You want them to know that you care about them both, but no matter what you do it is never good enough. It is almost like you are being blamed for it, when it wasnt even you that started it, or caused it. It becomes very frustrateing. You become lost and unaware of what to do next. Somtimes you get so fed up you want to slap them in the face with the truth. They simply cannot see what it is that they are doing , and who it effects. That makes it all the more frustrateing because you get even more caught in the spider web they have created for you. They also have the tendencey of not being themselves or just showing you one of their faults. The thing about this type of situation is it can become better and fixed or it can completely take a turn for the worst. If it does take a turn for the worst then you will be faced with a very horrible choice sometimes you dont have to because they have come to their senses and know they are your friend no matter what. They are also inconsiderate of how you feel, and act like a child. They can say," Well fine be on there side"when all you are doing is trying to help them see all points of view. IT IS SOO FRUSTRATING!!

It is a hard situation to be in but it will eventually pass. It becomes all about time and what time does to the situation. It is a hard thing to be the middle person in this situation. I seem to be the middle person almost 100% of the time but i have a peace-maker personality so i guess it is where i will continually remain. I like helping people feel better about them selfs and over come their problems, but it is hard when they seem to blame you for everything. I hope my situation eventutally blows over. I believe that it eventually will over time.